The Dark Side Of Cheating » Scenarios http://www.darksideofcheating.com Fri, 13 Jan 2012 00:25:15 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Tips To Help One Catch Cheating Spouses http://www.darksideofcheating.com/2011/12/10/tips-to-help-one-catch-cheating-spouses/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=tips-to-help-one-catch-cheating-spouses http://www.darksideofcheating.com/2011/12/10/tips-to-help-one-catch-cheating-spouses/#comments Sat, 10 Dec 2011 21:04:11 +0000 admin http://www.darksideofcheating.com/?p=81 One of the worst things that has to be done is to catch cheating spouses. Intuition often plays a role here, as that is usually where the suspicions arise. The cheated spouse will detect that something is not quite right. Once acceptance of this has been achieved, the spouse will want to confirm this by either catching the spouse out or getting him or her to confess to the fact.

People who are inexperienced in this kind of thing could find themselves at a loss as to how to catch the spouse. Cheaters generally are quite inept sat this as they have done before. They usually know what to do so that they do not get caught out.

By and large the playing fields are not level as the cheater is always at an advantage. They know that they must do everything in their power to not get caught. This is while the person being cheated on is unaware that anything is even going on.

Cheaters will usually exploit their partners by abusing their trust. Spouses want to believe that the other spouse is telling the truth. If the cheater is convincing enough, he or she will gain their spouses confidence. Constantly affirming that he or she loves the other spouse will keep the cheated spouse off the track for some time.

People often do not like to face the truth and therefore it is easy to believe the lie. Spouses can often also subconsciously overlook acts of infidelity so that they do not get hurt. This is because many people would rather flee from painful scenarios.

This is probably the biggest reason that the spouse is usually the last person to find out about the affair. Spouses would rather do anything to achieve pleasure than to face pain. It is therefore easier to accept the lie. Cheating partners exploit this for all that it is worth. They tell the soups precisely what it is that they wish to hear. Furthermore there are not too many overt signs that any infidelity is taking place.

Detailing tell tale signs that will help one to catch cheating spouses is difficult to compile. That said, after the fact it is always then easy to see where the cheating was taking place. Spouse should always be on the lookout for any changes in normal behavior. Furthermore, when trying to catch a spouse one should be as inconspicuous as possible

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Kelly Taylor asked:


Firstly, do you know why married men cheat? Obviously not r you wouldn’t be here right now. Men cheat because of a lot of reasons; some of the reasons make a lot more sense to him than they ever will to you. You will hear excuses like “it just happened” or “you drove me to it” and “it didn’t mean anything”. All of these excuses are complete rubbish and are from a brain which can’t think quick enough to come up with something original.

Let’s take a quick look at these excuses. “It just happened” This one is the oldest in the book, so you met her, took her home, had sex, drove home, called her the next day and did it all again! This isn’t just “happened” this is planned. Unless he passed out on the floor and she took advantage of him, he knew what he was doing.

“You drove me to it” unless he told you that he was meeting up with another woman for sex, his car was in the shop and gave him a ride there, you didn’t drive him to anything.

Another of the classics is “it didn’t mean anything” “so if it didn’t mean anything why did you do it over and over again, or were you just making sure?” is probably the best answer for this stupid excuse.
BUT! Who are they cheating with? You may not understand why married men cheat but if you ever find out who he is seeing you will probably have a good idea. If he is seeing a woman with blonde hair, big breasts and a low IQ, you can say that it was purely sexual.

If he is seeing someone from his office or place of work, you could possibly say that it’s because they have a lot in common (maybe).

If he is seeing someone who isn’t what you expected, short, chubby and not much to look at, it could be because he needed to try out some new sexual activities which he knows that you would never agree to.

Has he been seeing one of your friends? This is one of the worst scenarios as it means that they have been making out but they have also been talking about you, and not in a positive way. The reason a lot of guys will make a move on your friends is because they have built up a relationship with them over time.

These are only a few examples of the types of person that he may be seeing, all men are different. What you have to remember is that cheating is cheating and it doesn’t matter what excuses he gives.

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