The Dark Side Of Cheating

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Why Married Men Cheat And Who Do They Cheat With?

by on Sep.23, 2009, under Affairs

Kelly Taylor asked:


Firstly, do you know why married men cheat? Obviously not r you wouldn’t be here right now. Men cheat because of a lot of reasons; some of the reasons make a lot more sense to him than they ever will to you. You will hear excuses like “it just happened” or “you drove me to it” and “it didn’t mean anything”. All of these excuses are complete rubbish and are from a brain which can’t think quick enough to come up with something original.

Let’s take a quick look at these excuses. “It just happened” This one is the oldest in the book, so you met her, took her home, had sex, drove home, called her the next day and did it all again! This isn’t just “happened” this is planned. Unless he passed out on the floor and she took advantage of him, he knew what he was doing.

“You drove me to it” unless he told you that he was meeting up with another woman for sex, his car was in the shop and gave him a ride there, you didn’t drive him to anything.

Another of the classics is “it didn’t mean anything” “so if it didn’t mean anything why did you do it over and over again, or were you just making sure?” is probably the best answer for this stupid excuse.
BUT! Who are they cheating with? You may not understand why married men cheat but if you ever find out who he is seeing you will probably have a good idea. If he is seeing a woman with blonde hair, big breasts and a low IQ, you can say that it was purely sexual.

If he is seeing someone from his office or place of work, you could possibly say that it’s because they have a lot in common (maybe).

If he is seeing someone who isn’t what you expected, short, chubby and not much to look at, it could be because he needed to try out some new sexual activities which he knows that you would never agree to.

Has he been seeing one of your friends? This is one of the worst scenarios as it means that they have been making out but they have also been talking about you, and not in a positive way. The reason a lot of guys will make a move on your friends is because they have built up a relationship with them over time.

These are only a few examples of the types of person that he may be seeing, all men are different. What you have to remember is that cheating is cheating and it doesn’t matter what excuses he gives.

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